fix(web): trust XFF for real client IP and correct port to 23081

- Configure nginx `set_real_ip_from` for RFC1918 ranges and enable
  `real_ip_recursive` so allowlists evaluate the true client IP
  instead of Docker's NAT gateway, preventing public exposure of
  `/metrics` and `/nginx_status`
- Update published port from 23181 to 23081 in docker-compose

docker-compose.yaml

@@ -377,7 +377,7 @@ services:
       retries: 3
       start_period: 60s
 
-  # ── Web: nginx reverse proxy, public port 23181 ────────────────────────────
+  # ── Web: nginx reverse proxy, public port 23081 ────────────────────────────
   # No Django env — nginx only knows how to route. Public listener is
   # templated into the conf file by Ansible if the port ever needs to change.
   web:
@@ -390,7 +390,7 @@ services:
       mcp:
         condition: service_healthy
     ports:
-      - "23181:80"
+      - "23081:80"
     volumes:
       - ./nginx/mnemosyne.conf:/etc/nginx/conf.d/default.conf:ro
       - static:/var/www/static:ro

nginx/mnemosyne.conf

@@ -32,6 +32,19 @@
 # resolution at startup and returns 502 after `docker compose restart app`.
 resolver 127.0.0.11 valid=10s;
 
+# Recover the real client IP from X-Forwarded-For (set by HAProxy on Titania)
+# before evaluating the RFC1918 allowlists below. nginx runs as a sidecar with
+# a published port, so every proxied request arrives via Docker's NAT gateway
+# (an RFC1918 address) — without this, the allowlists match that gateway and
+# pass ALL external traffic, exposing /metrics and /nginx_status publicly.
+# HAProxy's own health checks (e.g. to /healthz) carry no XFF and keep their
+# real 10.10.x.x source, so they stay allowed.
+set_real_ip_from 10.0.0.0/8;
+set_real_ip_from 172.16.0.0/12;
+set_real_ip_from 192.168.0.0/16;
+real_ip_header X-Forwarded-For;
+real_ip_recursive on;
+
 # Preserve X-Forwarded-Proto from the upstream reverse proxy (HAProxy TLS
 # termination on Titania); fall back to $scheme only if there's no upstream
 # header. Inside the compose network $scheme is always `http` because HAProxy